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Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Psychology in Simple Terms - Use it to Get What You Want

Have you ever stopped to wonder why psychologists, doctors, and others with a Phd use big words? Are they trying to confuse the rest of us?

I don't really think they use it all the time to confuse the rest of us mere mortals, okay not all the time anyway. You and I both know that some use this little bit of skill as a soap box to show the rest of us just how much they really know.

Have you ever wondered why there are people who are taken by 'rip off artists'? Well there are a couple of reasons, one is that these individuals are highly trained and or have a certain adaptability towards learning these tips and tricks. Another would be that we don't always know what they are looking for.

So to get what you want let's look closely at some of these and see exactly what they are using or what they know that we don't.

Cognitive Dissonance, okay let's break this down, when you are encountering someone that you want to know you start off with simple questions to get to know someone. Well the first part of understanding how to get what you want is to build a rapport.

1. Getting your foot in the door so to speak. You get to know them by starting off with simple things, questions that are easy to talk about, their day the weather, if there has been a big event in the news lately talk about that.

2. Key: Ask questions that get the person to agree and begin saying yes. Once they are saying yes it's much easier to get them to continue saying yes even if it's not exactly what they want to do. In fact after a bit the person typically tells them self that giving you what you want can't be so bad. They have helped you and felt pretty good about it.

It's a psychological trick that is pretty easy to do once you understand it.

Warning, now you do have to be careful with this tool as if you are asking them too many things, or something quite unusual this can backfire and they will have built up a very negative image in their mind about you and now if you ever encounter them again instead of it being a pleasant exchange it'll be a uncomfortable and stiff conversation at best.

So a word to the wise now that you know what this is and how to use it to help you get what you want use it carefully. Now you understand some psychology and why it can be very easy to get what you want.

3. Give them something, what is it that you're looking for, an answer, money back, to return a product. Now what do you have that they could possibly want?

Think for just a moment, if you're at work how to you get recognized?

Well, in customer service or in an industry where you work with people, typically it's those people that you work with who are the ones who help you move up, or at least receive additional recognition.

So now you know what you have that they want.

Now you have to think about everything surrounding you and or the person you are making the request from, so you can offer to give them what they want without being too pushy, that will only turn out to be another backfire.

For Example: If you have someone on the phone who you've built up that rapport, tell them how good of a job they're doing. Thank them for their time to address their concern, and be sure to get their supervisors information so you can pass this along, and do it don't just say it. Believe me they'll check into this, all of us want to be recognized for what we are good at.
Do you want some other must have techniques to get what you want?

* Would you like to tell your boss a few things, want to know how to do it without conflict?
* Have you ever been in a relationship where you felt like a door mat?
* Did you receive a bill you swear isn't yours?



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Famous Psychologist - Sigmund Freud

Sigmund Freud was a great personality who earned a good name during his life time and has made many helpful and famous discoveries that are still being used in the field of psychology to determine personality traits of people.

Sigmund Freud was born on May 6, 1856 in Freiberg in Moravia. He was a son of a wool merchant who had a great sense of humor. Sigmund was a child of his father's second wife who was just 21 years of age when she gave birth to him.

He was brilliant as a child and did very well in his academics. After his primary education he took admission into a medical school. He involved himself in research and neurophysiology. He spent many years in an attempt to reduce personality to neurology.

He was the one who made the concept of conscious and unconscious mind popular. The conscious mind of an individual is the one that he is aware of at any time and the present memories, perceptions, feelings, thoughts, and fantasies. While working on this concept he discovered the pre-conscious mind. The pre-conscious mind comprises of the available memory. The thoughts and memories that a person is not aware off at a particular time but can be readily brought to mind. Freud discovered that these two layers of the memory of mind are the smallest parts.

The largest part of the mind is made up of unconscious memory. This part of the memory is made up of things, thoughts, memories, perceptions that a person is not aware of including things that originate in this area of mind like instincts, drives and memories associated with a traumatic situation. We may not know about the presence of such feeling and emotions but they may suddenly appear when we see something tragic or traumatic happening to someone else.

Freud also explained the concept of Id, Ego and Super Ego. All these things apply to human nervous system. The Id works with pleasure principle. It understands the demands of the mind and tries to take care of it immediately. For example, when you feel hungry, you start looking for something to eat. If you ignore such demands for a time, there comes a point when the Id demands more attention from you to satisfy it. At this time the Ego of the individual becomes active and starts searching for food to satisfy the urge.

The Ego of an organism struggles to fulfill the Id and maintains the record of resources, rewards and punishments. The records that is stored for future reference such as what trick to follow and things to avoid becomes Super Ego.

Sigmund Freud also gave some more concepts like anxiety, depression and defense mechanisms to the world of psychology. These and such other concepts that were propagated by Sigmund Freud made him popular and famous in the field of psychology.



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Dream Therapy - Dreams Can Be Emotional Problem Solvers

Why should we bother with dreams?
Aren't dreams just nonsense...just neurons randomly firing?

Evolution has selected for dreaming.
Sleep researchers tell us that all humans and many animals dream several times every night. Dream sleep is so important that experimental subjects prevented from experiencing REM sleep, the part the sleep in which dreams occur, begin to hallucinate after just a couple of nights of deprivation. They effectively begin to dream when they are awake. It is that important to dream. The ability to dream has been evolutionarily selected for because it serves a vital function in human life.

Human beings in all times and places have examined dreams with interest and attention. Mythical and religious characters are portrayed as valuing and being influenced or changed by dreams. The ancient Greeks dedicated temples and trained priests and priestesses to interpret dreams. Sigmund Freud, the originator of psychoanalysis, out of which developed most other modern therapies, called dreams "The royal road to the unconscious" and Moses Maimonides, the famous Jewish philosopher is famous for saying that "A dream unexamined is like a letter unopened"

Psychoanalyst Paul Lipmann (2008) offers us the following list of what he feels that dreams offer:

* They state and solve problems.
* They express emotion... subtle and loud.
* They can express in images and stories those feelings and experiences that are most difficult to think or talk about when awake.
* They can express hidden feelings about one's relationship to powerful and less powerful others.
* They can both dissociate and bind together aspects of traumatic or any experience.
* They can help cover pain and shame or can rip apart a scab of defense.
* They portray our current problems, past dilemmas, and future possibilities.
* They gratify wishes.
* They can give expression to the life not lived.

Dreams are unconscious products.
Cognitive psychologists tell us that we can hold approximately seven (plus or minus two if your memory is exceptionally good or bad) "chunks" of information in our minds at once.

That is seven digits in a phone number, seven items of a grocery list. That is not very many and yet we have access to a vast reservoir of memories, concepts and emotional experiences which are called up effortlessly and seamlessly into that famous set of seven chunks. And just as seamlessly those concepts not in immediate use slip out and are put away. It's a truly amazing system when you think about it... effortless and taken for granted. But what is the mechanism that reaches down and pulls up the information that is needed? Most of the time it is not "conscious intention."

Unconscious processing is a natural and necessary part of thinking
Unconscious processing always underpins and facilitates conscious thinking. It is the system which receives, organizes and makes accessible all of the concepts and experiences that we own. It is simply impossible to be consciously aware of everything we know or to consciously make all the associations between facts that we must in order to make sense of our experience.

Importantly related facts, ideas and feelings may have been accumulated over a lifetime, arriving at different times and out of different life experiences. Consciousness, which is busy figuring out what to make for supper, rarely takes time to sniff around and explore all the potential associations... even to pressing life problems.

Fortunately we have an alternative system to do this work... psychoanalysts call this the personal unconscious . Cognitive researchers call it "automatic processing"," implicit thought systems" or even "deep psychological processes". No one tries to pretend that consciousness is big enough or strong to do all the work alone.

When we are concerned about some aspect of our lives or relationships, the unconscious continues to work on the problem while consciousness is busy doing other things. Anyone who has ever had an "Aha!" moment has had the experience of things being brought together unconsciously and presented as a now obvious fact or solution.

Sleep on it!!

The unconscious attempts to offer us larger access to what we know.
One of the main ways that the unconscious is positively integrated in our lives is through dreams. Dreams contain attempts by the unconscious to bring us information and make the arguments that elaborate or counterbalance the conscious attitude.

Typically, our feelings about situations and persons are more complicated and nuanced than what positive thinking, common sense or good manners will endorse.
We have mixed feeling about most experiences.

* The birth of a child brings joy but also a curtailment of freedom.
* We love and admire our best friend but her success makes us jealous.
* We think we want to study to be a lawyer but is it really our father's dream for us?

Understanding our dreams helps us understand ourselves more fully.

* When the conscious attitude agrees pretty well with the unconscious one, dreams will underline, endorse or strengthen belief and resolve... they support a feeling of confidence or "rightness".
* When consciousness overvalues a person or situation dreams may shrink it down to size by portraying it in an unpleasant or inferior way.
* When consciousness does not sufficiently value a person, situation or goal the unconscious may elevate the idea, by symbolically representing it as appropriately precious.
* Dreams can add new knowledge to consciousness, raise questions or suggest goals or things to be avoided.

A picture is worth a thousand words.
A huge amount of the information that we take in about the world is visual. Almost every important experience has a visual memory of people, places and things attached to it. Since most life knowledge and ideas are tied up in some way with visual images, it is not really surprising that images should be the material that the unconscious uses to represent its ideas.

Dream images may seem strange at first glance, but they are often proven on examination to be extremely accurate visual metaphors of a situation which concerns the dreamer.

A very personal point of view

* There is no "one size fits all" in dream interpretation. The images in dreams are often often mysterious and bizarre, they may make reference to other times and places or show the dreamer as someone entirely other that what they are in reality.
* Dream dictionaries should be used sparingly and treated mostly as sources of inspiration.
* The dreamer is the only person who can say whether an interpretation "works".

Dreams in Psychotherapy
A psychologist who works with dreams in therapy draws on her knowledge of the client's life situation and life history as well as her training in typical patterns of human response. She works with her clients to understand the dream images in relation to what the client is struggling with or has experienced in life. Together they try to understand what particular relevance and associations that these images have for this particular individual.

* Dream work in therapy contributes to the process of deepening self knowledge.
* Understanding of the full range of their desires and responses permits the client to invent new possibilities for action and decision... to change their life in ways that make their desires and their actions more congruent.
* Dream work deepens therapeutic intimacy and creates a collaborative atmosphere between therapist and client.

Brief therapy centered on dreams
Psychotherapeutic work with dreams may be part of an on-going therapy or may be helpful as a short term process which focuses on understanding a particular situation, for example:

* In periods of normal transition such as life passages,
* In periods of crisis,
* When difficult decisions are being considered
* When radically new life experiences must be assimilated.
* Sometimes a particularly striking dream or dream series will evoke a desire to question or understand a current or past situation or experience.

At these moments it may be helpful to consider working with a psychologist or therapist who will provide guidance and emotional support and help steady you as you explore the questions
that dream examination raises.

Dreams are part of our system of unconscious re-organization and creative problem solving. They pull the essence of a problematic situation out of the clutter of daily experience so we can see it more clearly. They remind us of what we have nearly forgotten, or of what we have tried to forget and bring together ideas that we knew separately but which click" and create new understanding when brought together. They help us see what we really desire and they point the way to future possibilities that grow out of past experiences.



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What is Autism?

Most reputable scientists now believe that autism has existed throughout the history of humankind. Some have speculated that ancient legends about "changelings" are actually stories of children with autism. Celtic mythology is redolent with stories of elves and visitors from "the other side" who steal a human child and leave their own damaged child in its place. The child left behind is usually mute, remote and distant, staring into space and unresponsive to its adult caretakers. We must bear in mind that in times gone by, and in some cultures today, children who are unlike the average expected child are seen to be victims of evil or some sort.

In 1801 the French physician Itard took into his care a boy who had been found wandering naked in the forest. It was believed at the time that the boy had lived alone in the forest since early childhood. The boy could not speak and was unresponsive to human contact. He has come to be known as "sauvage de l'Aveyron," or "wild boy of Aveyron". Itard's tireless efforts to help this boy mark the beginning of special educaiton. Although autism was not a term used at the time there are those who speculate that the wild boy of Aveyron was a child with autism.

The real history of autism dates back only one hundred years to the time of the Swiss psychiatrist Eugen Bleuler. In 1911 Bleuler was writing about a group of people then identified as having schizophrenia. In his writing he coined the term "autism" to describe their seeming near total absorption with themselves and distance from others.

Writing in the early 1920's, Carl Gustav Jung introduced the terminology of extrovert and introvert. Jung viewed these personality types as being present in all people to one degree or another. However he noted that in extreme cases, cases that in the language of his day were called "neurotic", a person could become totally absorbed into himself or herself.

It was not until the late 1930's and early 1940's in America that the term "autism" joined the official psychiatric nomenclature. Psychiatrists Leo Kanner, who started working with a particular group of children in 1938, and Hans Asperger, both publishing findings and writing in 1943 and 1944, wrote about groups of children they had studied and called either "autistic" or children with "autistic psychopathy". Both authors believe these children displayed a constellation of symptoms that were unique and represented a syndrome not previously identified. As the children they studied seemed unable to engage in normal human relationships they borrowed Bleuler's term "autism" to identify the syndrome. The defining difference between the work of Kanner and Asperger and that of Bleuler is that for the former two the condition they describe is present at birth while for Bleuler the condition appears much later in life.

Another important difference in these early pioneers of autism is that Kanner group is quite self-contained and comprised of individual all sharing the same "core" symptoms. Asperger's group is quite wide, ranging from the children like Kanner's to children with near normal characteristics. The vestiges of these two differing descriptions, now bearing the names of their illustrious "discoverers" remains to this day. In the literature and in lay terminology we still hear people described as having "Kanner's autism" or "Asperger's syndrome.

Around the time of Kanner and Asperger another famous, indeed in autism circles infamous, name appears. This is Bruno Bettelheim. In 1944 Bettelheim directed the Orthogenic School for Children in Chicago, Illinois. There he worked out his own theory of the cause of autism and started intervention programmes. Bettelheim believed that autism was a result of children being raised in severely unstimulating environments during their early years. He believed it was parents, particularly mothers, who were unresponsive to their children that caused autism. The unfortunate term "refrigerator mother" arose during this time.

Although Bettelheim's psychological theories were eventually discredited it was not for many years that science advanced to the point that mother's were not blamed for autism. Indeed, the author's own post-graduate training in the mid to late 70's was characterised by lectures about "refrigerator mothers" having caused autism. The legacy of Bettelheim's theory is undoubtedly one of terrible harm inflicted on so many mothers for so many years. [I cannot help but wonder if we really have progressed since I have so often heard mothers of children with autism being described as "over-anxious", "clinging", "over-involved" and "pushy or aggressive" by some educators, psychologists and physicians]

From the 1980's onward considerable research has been undertaken to uncover the "cause" of autism. So many theories have come forward: genetic, environmental, toxins, endocrine, metabolic, unusual reactions to certain foods or additives and the current favourite, immunizations. Despite all this theorising autism still remains a puzzle. Little scientifically valid evidence supports any particular theory and research continues into the cause of autism.

What do we know about autism?

It is now and accepted fact that autism is a neurodevelopment (sometimes called neurobiological) condition. This places the site of autism within the human brain itself, not in the form of physical brain abnormalities that appear on physical examination or X-ray, but rather in the chemical and electrical activity of the brain. It is know that autism is present at birth, is more common amongst boys than girls and is a life-long condition with no "cure". We know that autism can be treated effectively and there are a wide number of treatment options available. It is now known that education is particularly important in the treatment of autism and that early intervention is critically important. Children born with autism can improve along a number of pathways but they will always have autism no matter how seemingly like others they may become.

Having said what was said about autism being incurable and a life-long condition there are those who say it can be cured. Interesting forms of treatment being studied in New Orleans, Louisiana involve testing children with autism for low-level presence of lead in there system, then providing treatment to eliminate any traces of autism. This is said to have "cured" over 1,500 children of the condition (personal conversation with the lead physician). It has to be cautioned that such extreme and emphatic statements must be put to the rigorous test of scientific study and that the sorts of assessments being completed on these children in New Orleans are not in favour in Europe at the moment.

What is autism?

The neurodevelopment or neurobiological condition known as autism is highly variable. No two people with autism are alike. Having said that, all people with autism share common characteristics. These characteristics exist along what is called the "Triad of Impairment".

The Triad of Impairment consists of significant deficits across three developmental areas:

1. Social impairment
2. Verbal and non-verbal communication impairment
3. Impairments of thinking and behaving

1. Impairment of Social Interaction

There are several sub-types of behaviours that characterise this group of people with autism. They can be quite aloof, behaving as if other people did not exist at all, making little or no eye contact and have faces that seem to lack any emotional display whatever. Less common is the passive group who will accept the advances of others, can be led to participate as a passive partner in an activity and who return the eye contact of others. Another subtype has been called the "active but odd group". These people pay no attention to others, have poor eye contact and may stare too long and often shake hands far too vigorously and strongly. The last subtype is the overly formal and stilted group. They tend to use language in a very formal way when it is not called for, are excessively polite and try to stick to the rules of social interaction but don't really understand then. They tend to have well developed language skills that can mask their real social deficits.

2. Impairment of Communication

Significant deficits in communication are present, to one degree or another, in all people with autism. They may have problems is using speech (expressive language), ranging from having no speech at all (about 20% of cases) to have very well developed speech. They make repeat words spoken to them (echolalia) or repeat phrases they associate with something they want (e.g. "Do you want to play" instead of "I want to play"). They will also have deficits in understanding speech (receptive language). Confusing between sounds of words can be present (e.g. meat and meet). Difficulty with irony, sarcasm and humour is often found in those with well-developed expressive language. They may have problems understanding when an object has more than one meaning (e.g. soup bowl, toilet bowl).

In addition to the problem listed about in receptive language people with autism can often have significant difficulty with modulating their tone of voice and putting expression into what they say. They can sometimes sound robotic and speak with a droning monotone. Sometimes they can emphasise the intonation of certain words with unnecessary force. Sometimes they are too loud, sometimes too quiet (more frequent).

It is important to recognise that communication is more than speech. Non-verbal communication is important for human social interaction to proceed smoothly. People with autism have deficits in understand non-verbal communication. They may not be able to interpret facial expression or to use it themselves. They may have odd and unusual body posture and gestures. They may not understand the body posture and gestures of others.

3. Impairment of Thinking and Behaving

People with autism have pronounced difficulty with play or imagining. The lack of the ability to play has a profound effect on the ability to understand the emotions of others therefore sharing joy or sorrow with another can be impossible. Repetitive and stereotyped movements or activities are often present in autism. They may want to taste, touch or smell things. They may have a need to twirl things before their eyes. Sometimes they may jump up and down and make loud noises. In more severe cases they may bang their heads against walls or floor or pull and scratch at their skin. People with autism have a strong need for consistency and sameness. They become unsettled when routine changes. All these behaviours and characteristics point to a pronounced inflexibility in thinking and behaving.

Although every person with an autistic spectrum disorder has deficits in all three parts of the triad each varies significantly in the nature of their deficits. This makes is imperative for people working with children with autism to individualise their interventions. Autism is a highly variable condition with no two children alike and with some children, seemingly near normal but having subtle deficits.

Problems that may accompany autism

In addition to deficits across the triad there are a number of problems often associated with autism, though it is not known yet if they are caused by autism. Among the most common are: epileptic seizures (particularly in adolescence), sensory integration deficits (difficulty integrating the reception of sensations such as sound, sight, taste, hearing or movement), general learning disabilities, Fragile X syndrome (about 2-5% of people with an ASD), tuberous sclerosis (benign tumours in the brain or other organs, occurs in about 2-4% of people with an ASD), ADHD, Tourette's syndrome and dyslexia. Proper treatment of autism must include appropriate treatment of any associated condition.

Education of children with autism

Many children with autism can be educated in the mainstream with appropriate supports. These supports typically include speech and language therapy, occupational therapy, psychological services and special education. Though they perceive the world differently from those around them they benefit from placement in mainstream classroom and the other children benefit from having them in their class.

People with autism vary to an enormous degree as has been said above. As they progress through the educational system the types of supports they require and the intensity of these supports can vary as well. It is important to recognise that children with autism can be educated and reach their optimum level of potential. The task may be difficult and progress may be slow but progress will be made when supports are present and all work cooperatively together.

When autism is severe and accompanied by extremely challenging behaviour such as aggression, self-harm, extreme disorganisation and complete lack of language the education being provided often must take place in a specialist setting. The goal in these settings is to attempt to re-integrate the child back into the mainstream. For children whose autism is of such a severe nature psychiatric services may be required as an adjunct to the educational programme.

People with autism can be educated and a great many of them can enter the work force, sometimes independently and with great success, at other times requiring the support of a job coach and in some cases may require sheltered work settings. As well as entering the work force many people with autism can live independent lives, some will require structured and supported accommodation and some will require accommodation is specialist settings.

Autism and the brain

Considerable research is underway to investigate the exact nature of brain functioning in a person with autism. A lot is being learned but there is more to be learned in the future. What is known now is that there seems to be differences in the brain functioning of people with autism. With advances in nuero-imaging it is now possible to look at the brain with performing an autopsy. This makes it possible to study how the brain works while it is working. These imaging methods (CT scans, MRI scans PET scans and others) have shown that there seem to be a number of brain structures associated with autism and autistic spectrum disorders. These include the cerebellum, cerebral cortex, limbic system, corpus callosum, basal ganglia, and brain stem. These structures are responsible for cognition, movement, emotional regulation and coordination as well as sensory reception. Other studies are looking into the role of neurotransmitters such as dopamine, serotonin and epinephrine. There seems to be a genetic factor involved in some of these brain dysfunctions and some research indicates that unusual brain growth may take place in the first three months of life, is a genetic factor and that results in autism appearing in early childhood.

What is being learned turns other theories, such as Bettelheim's, upside down. Autism is no one's fault. It is a neurodevelopment disorder affecting more boys than girls (4:1), occurring in about 3-6% of the population. This makes autism less common than general learning disabilities but common than cerebral palsy, hearing impairment and visual impairment. Translating these statistics into something more comprehensible it can be said that about 1 in 500 to 1 in 150 people will be born with autism. The implications for these figures are alarming because it means that virtually every school in the country has a child on the spectrum and that the vast majority of these children have not been diagnosed and are perceived in a pejorative light by their teachers, sometimes seemingly odd or obstreperous and sometimes lazy or unable to learn.

Autism and the family

Autism is a family condition. When there is one child in the family with autism there is a condition present that affects every single-family member including those who do not live in the same home. On receiving a diagnosis of autism parents sometimes feel a certain relief, now knowing that it isn't their fault the child is different. Others react with anger, grief, shame, denial or rage. Sometimes they become angry with the diagnostician and refuse to believe the findings. Although diagnosis at an early age is a good predictor of successful outcome if appropriate treatment is provided it is always accompanied by considerable trauma to family life. The impact of the diagnosis is always greatest on the mother.

The impact of living with a person on the spectrum has been shown to be harder on the mother than the father. The lessened paternal impact has a lot to do with factors associated with the gender role of the man in the traditional family: out of the home and working much of the time. Mothers are left in the major caretaker role and face the day-to-day stress of rearing a child with autism. For fathers the major impact of autism in the family is associated with the stress it puts on the mother. Figures in the US seem to indicate that the divorce rate in families of children with autism is not higher than in other families. This is something that has not been studied extensively in other countries however one study conducted in the UK indicates that the lone parent rate in families with autism is 17%, compared with 10% in other families.

Studies have shown that the emotional impact of autism on the mother can be quite severe. Many mothers experience enough emotional distress to require medication or psychotherapy. One study showed that 50% of mothers of children with autism screed positively for significant psychological distress and that this was associated with low levels of family support and brining up a child with challenging behaviour. Another study raised this figure to 66%. The emotional stress on the mother appears to have a significant effect on the work status. Many cannot work outside the home. For those that manage to work outside the home there is an increased incidence of tardiness, missed days and reduction to part-time status. Mothers are also the person most likely to be held responsible for their child's behaviour by others outside the family including neighbours and teachers. Mothers tend to cope differently with these stresses than fathers. Fathers tend to hide their feelings and suppress them, the result often being increased episodes of anger outburst. Mothers tend to cope by talking about their difficulties with friends, particularly other mothers of children with autism. They also cope by becoming avid information seekers, often knowing more about autism then the educators of their children.

The impact of autism on the siblings is not to be underestimated. They know from an early age that their brother or sister is "different". They will have a great many questions but most often don't ask them for fear of hurting the parent's feelings. The will have a deep love of the sibling with autism but this love is sometimes associated with anger and resentment due to the increased time the parents spend on the sibling with autism. They will often worry about their own future and obsess about whether or not they will "get" autism or will they pass it on to their own children one day.

The impact is not always negative and several studies have shown that being a sibling of a child with autism is associated with greater self-confidence and social competence. Care-taking skills often improve as well. Levels of tolerance to difference can be higher than in the siblings of children who do not have autism. So, what do we know about the impact of autism on the family? It is a mixed bag of results. At times is can be devastating, at other times it can lead to higher levels of coping skills and a sense of self-mastery. A lot depends on the family itself and the community in which it is embedded. A lot more depends on the supports and treatments available, especially the educational interventions and supports that can be provided. One this is certain: autism is a family condition affecting everyone.



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Monday, September 21, 2009

Green Versus Yellow - The Colors and Choices of Freedom and Mobs

As we watch the various riots and protests in the Middle East we see something very interesting. We see a lot of colors being used. When Hezbollah marched in the streets of Lebanon everyone had yellow flags, and they were waving them frantically in complete hysteria. And they were chanting slander against the Jews and Israel.

Indeed, there were thousands, even tens of thousands in the streets marching with yellow-flags and wearing-yellow and carrying yellow-banners, yellow was everywhere. In the protests after the elections in Iran we noted that everyone was wearing-green and carrying green-flags. The movement against the government and the corrupt elections was signified by green.

Even the soccer players for the Iranian national team who were away playing in a foreign country were wearing green-armbands and green-collars on their shirts. Although this is interesting, and also has a psychological component to it, it does pose some other philosophical questions. We know that communists consider the color red to be their color and they marched down the streets in unison carrying red-flags, red-banners, and wearing red- uniforms.

In Ancient times Indian tribes also used colors to gather unity and to strengthen the mob before they attacked. Obviously there is something with humans and the mob-mentality that has to do with colors.

In the streets of Los Angeles there are gangs called the Bloods and they used red, and a gang called the Crips used blue. If you ask our real Cryp if they bleed, which color will they bleed; they will tell you blue! Seriously it's true. So what is it with human beings, and the mass-mob-mentality that brings the colors to life? There is more to it than you think. Perhaps you should read up on some research about this?

Dream Interpretation - The Relationship Between the Different Dreams You See in the Same Night

All dreams you see in the same night explain to you exactly the same things but from different points of view, and give importance to other characteristics.

You see around five dreams per night even if you don't remember them. All these dreams give you the same lesson with different examples, focusing in other matters and showing you all the consequences of your actions.

The unconscious mind is your psychiatrist and teacher. You may ignore this fact, but you indispensably need psychotherapy, even if you believe that you are normal and nothing could ever make you behave in an absurd manner. Unfortunately you inherited a content which could only be named craziness, in the wild part of your conscience. This is your primitive conscience, which is still alive inside you.

It is schizophrenic and it has too much power and energy, like all wild animals. The unconscious mind sends you protective dreams everyday exactly in order to show you how you can tame this absurd part of your brain and transform it into a sensitive and sensible part of your human conscience.

This is why all dreams you see in the same night are like variations of the same pattern, with different scenes but similar messages.

For example, you may see in a dream that you are flying in the air. This means that you are far from the objective reality, lost in your own fantasies, which is quite dangerous because if you don't examine reality as it is, you will certainly fall into many traps in your way and suffer very much.

Then you see another dream where many people are trying to reach the top of a mountain, but there is too much fog and they never manage to go up.

The people you see are parts of your own personality; the different parts that have different characteristics and are trying to achieve a goal. The top of a mountain is a place that represents victory. When you see in a dream that you are at the top of a mountain this is a very good sign, because it means that you reached a higher level of knowledge with your achievements.

However, in the dream all the people that were trying to go up were unable to, therefore the dream has a negative meaning.

The fog prevents you from seeing everything clearly around you, which means that the parts of your personality that were not able to attain the top are not able to see reality, blinded by many obstacles.

As you can see, the meaning of both dreams is the same: you are far from the objective reality, and you are not able to do what you must, because you cannot see all dangers.

Both dreams are trying to make you understand that your position is very dangerous and you must pay attention to the reality in which you live, otherwise you will have to face many sad experiences.

Write down all the dreams you remember every day, and try to find out what the relationship is between them, because they are all connected.

There is a relationship between the dreams you see in the same night and the dreams you see during certain periods of time, because the unconscious mind gives you lessons gradually, showing you all the existent dangers, all your mistakes, and how you can protect yourself not only from the cruel world, but also from your own wild side.

Career in Counseling and Psychotherapy

Have you ever questioned what precisely a career in counseling and psychotherapy might mean to you? Do you think you have the aptitude to hear someone else's point of view, understand somebody's perspective on any issue and help them in dealing with their problems? If your answer is yes, then you could be one of those who could perhaps enjoy a bright career in Counseling and Psychotherapy.

Over the past few years the demand for mental health professionals, i.e. psychotherapists or counselors has increased drastically. Besides this, career in counseling and psychotherapists have boomed as one of the prime and nation's upcoming occupations. Perhaps it is no surprise that each year many students are selecting this psychology course and its popularity is expected to grow further in coming years.

Why to Choose?

Choosing your career in Counseling and Psychotherapy actually helps you in developing an understanding of both self and others in a way unparalleled by any other existing theory. This psychology course aids you in creating a powerful framework for addressing boundary and identifying issues. The course provides you with integrated educational process that is usually required in the field of counseling and psychotherapy. Generally a relationship between client and counselor is more complex and demanding. So, once you complete your training in counseling and psychotherapy, you will learn how to sustain such relationships.

Apart from this, the major benefits of opting this course is that after you complete this course, you will also gain various skills that are primarily required in this profession, like-

  • Express the ability to evaluate relevance of models of counseling and psychotherapy to clinical situations.
  • Recognize vital theories or concepts and methods of counseling and psychotherapy.
  • Prepare and take responsibility for applications of theory that can be used in clinical situations in a multi disciplinary team.

Essential Edibility Criteria

Getting into a graduate program in psychology can be rather complex as there are different areas of applied psychology that requires providing assistance to adults, families or children. As a result, there are few prime edibility criteria that you must meet before you select this psychology course, like-

Personal Competencies:

  • This profession is filled with mental challenges, so you must demonstrate the interest in and commitment to the subject.
  • Since this profession is more like a relationship between client and counsellor, so you must have excellent interpersonal and communication skills.
  • You also need to have the attitude and maturity of character as your client can be from any age-group starting from 10 to 60+.

Academic Qualification:

  • Being as an applicant, you must have a proper English Language proficiency.
  • You also need to have the proper and authenticate Academic Leaving Certificate.

However, if you have some work experience in this profession then you must show it through proper documents.

Other Important Considerations

Today there are numerous institutes that provides course in psychology. Thus, it also becomes important to choose a correct psychology institutes that can help you understand the richness and diversity of psychoanalytic perspectives on sources of human distress and the psycho therapeutic encounter.

Every leading psychology institute has its selection process that primarily includes filing an application form. After receipt of a completed application form you as an applicant has to appear for interview. The prime objective for interview is that it helps institute in ensuring whether you as a student will be able to meet the course requirements. Besides this, an interview can also provide you as an applicant a right opportunity to know -do the course actually meets the needs and your expectations.

Better Scope for Tomorrow

Counseling and Psychotherapy is a certainly a best way of helping people to overcome from emotional problems or troublesome habits. At present many organizations have increasingly started using psychologists and those with psychology backgrounds in assisting them in the research and design of products, services, and marketing activities. Besides this, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, the number of jobs for psychologists will grow at about the average rate for all jobs, while the rate of growth for counselors will be significantly higher. Today it is the certainly one of the most demanding career options and its prospect expects to increase further in coming years.